Anonymous said: I often feel like I have no close friends. I don't like drinking or partying yet this seems like the only times my friends want to catch up with me. When I say no and offer alternatives like going for lunch or dinner they see my actions as not making an effort and that really hurts me. I feel that friendship should be about give and take, am I doing something wrong? Thankyou.

Not at all, not everyone wants to drink, and I don’t feel as though it’s right for them to only want to catch up with you then.

—Kurt

Anonymous said: This is a really stressful time for me right now. I am in a really great relationship with my boyfriend and we have been safe but i'm unbelievably, unforgivably stressed. I'm really afraid I may be pregnant. I'm 17 right now and I'm just terrified..We've been safe but there's always a chance that something could have happened and I'm just freaked out. My period shouldn't start for another week or so, but I have never been so anxious to get it in my life. I don't know how to handle it....

If you’re concerned, get a test, and see what’s going on.

— Kurt

Anonymous said: Hey so a few months ago i started talking to this guy, we were pretty flirty and i really liked him and i could see he felt the same. One weekend we were at the same pub talking and all that, i went home early cause i wasnt well. When i got home he snapchat me and asked to "come over and snuggle" i said no cause i wasnt well and i was in bed. After that he stopped talking to me and would ignore me if he saw me out. Should i try talk to him again? i still like him and i still see him look at me

By all means, go for it. It seems a little ridiculous that he’d stop talking to you after something like that.

— Kurt

Anonymous said: I was at my guy friends birthday dinner the other night then a group of friends (just short of 20) walked back to his house, it was quite late so it was dark and really cold outside. He was asking whether or not i was cold (i said yes cos it obviously was) then he tried warming me up by rubbing my arms, he also quickly put his arm around my waist, does this mean anything?

Possibly, could do. Just go with it! 

Huge question back log so short answers, I’m trying to clear it so if this is a very old question I’m very sorry, It’s just I don’t like to delete them and it may help someone. 

Amy <3

Anonymous said: I am going on a cruise with my boyfriend, his parents, and their friends. we was talking about money and seeing if I would be able to help pay and he says "if you can you can, if you can't, you can't" and I just worry about this stuff and will feel bad if I can't help. I might be getting my job back soon. but if I don't, I will feel super bad about not being able to help out. the most I can do is get my passport.. I just worry about not being able to help.. Its eight months away

Just do what you can, he seems pretty understanding about it.

Huge question back log so short answers, I’m trying to clear it so if this is a very old question I’m very sorry, It’s just I don’t like to delete them and it may help someone. 

Amy <3

Anonymous said: If you're in a relationship and your significant other has maintained contact with a friend that he knew before you but had "benefits" with, is it ok that when something happens and you can't be there for them such as car breaking down and you are an hour away and they call this person everytime there is a crisis and state that you can trust them and the fact that you don't agree with it is being selfish.. who is in the wrong him or you?

It’s a hard line. If they’re strictly friends its more than within reason to get jealous! I would! Just ask him about it.

Huge question back log so short answers, I’m trying to clear it so if this is a very old question I’m very sorry, It’s just I don’t like to delete them and it may help someone. 

Amy <3

Anonymous said: My best friend hates this guy who used to like her. She thinks I hate him too but I actually have a crush on him. Everybody says he likes me too. A month ago I wondered off with him when I wasn't supposed to. My BFF asked where I went so I said I went to the bathroom because I didn't want her to tease us. When we wondered off we really connected. I don't know if I should tell her I wondered off with him. Should I or not?

Just be honest! 

Huge question back log so short answers, I’m trying to clear it so if this is a very old question I’m very sorry, It’s just I don’t like to delete them and it may help someone. 

Amy <3

Anonymous said: if this blog is still active, I need some advice. (wow obviously) okay but there is this kid at school I like. he's super nice and he's not like the hottest person ever but he's nice and that's all that matters. I don't want a relationship. I'm only in 7th grade and I feel it's stupid to date in this grade.. so I had a dream a few nights ago that we were dating. I ignored it. yesterday night I had a dream that I went up to him and said "I like you damnit." what do I do? thanks!

It is! I’m very sorry! 

Just man up and go for it! 

Huge question back log so short answers, I’m trying to clear it so if this is a very old question I’m very sorry, It’s just I don’t like to delete them and it may help someone. 

Amy <3

Anonymous said: This is going to sound complicated. I have 5 half sisters in another country who live with my father and his wife. His wife and my half siblings don't know I exist. One of their kids is older than me (21-22 - I'm 19). He was with his wife and then left her while she was pregnant, was with my mother for 3 years & left when she got pregnant & went back to his ex (current wife). The rest are 18 & younger. I really want them to know about me because I hate being his secret, should I contact them?

OF course you should! You didn’t do anything wrong.

Huge question back log so short answers, I’m trying to clear it so if this is a very old question I’m very sorry, It’s just I don’t like to delete them and it may help someone. 

Amy <3

Anonymous said: So I met this guy last night and we found out that we have a lot in common. We talked for a couple of hours and he started kind of putting his arm around me and asked me if that was ok, and then not too long after that he asked if he could kiss me and I let him. That was the first time I let someone kiss me. The more I think about it the more I think that I shouldn't have let a guy I just met kiss me. I'm not even sure if I like him like that either. I like him as a person though?

Of course you should have let him if you wanted to! Don’t crucify yourself for nothing.

Huge question back log so short answers, I’m trying to clear it so if this is a very old question I’m very sorry, It’s just I don’t like to delete them and it may help someone. 

Amy <3