This is for you guys, I’m sorry I haven’t been active.

With the start of the new school year, you are all going to encounter problems. What seperates you, from everyone

else is how you deal with these problems. You’ve got to know that if you bury your head in the ground, that won’t fix

anything. You take a blade to your arm, you’re hurting no body else but yourself. A famous man once said that

it aint about how hard you hit, it’s about how hard you get hit and keep moving forwards. Nobody ain’t gunna hit

as hard as life. There’s going to be lots of different problems, you might like a guy, or a girl, you might get bullied,

you might start self harming, you might want to kill yourself, you might fail. The worst thing about all of these is the

fear behind them, and fear is the worst part of it. You gotta get up there, and face that fear, kick fear in the teeth

and keep moving. You let yourself fall for just a moment, and fear will keep you there on your hands and knees.

I got good grades in college yeah, so did Amy, but that was only because we wanted success more than we wanted to sleep.

You gotta really want it, if you’re gunna get it.

— Kurt

Anonymous said: This guy my friend hates likes me and I like him. A month ago I asked him to carry something for me and he did. Then he set it down I said thank you. He put his arm around me and said anytime. He leaned in to me opened the door almost kissed me but before he could the door closed on us. My friend who hates him was there watching us. I'm feeling guilty because I wanted to kiss him and when he leaned in to me I leaned back and we almost kissed and I'm not sure if I should confront him on it.

Call him out.

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.

Anonymous said: My BFF hates this guy I like and I think he likes me because everybody says so and my friend asked him and he said he did. I'm not sure if he's joking when he tries to kiss me or when he hugged me and says I'm awesome or adorable. Does that means he likes me or not?

I have no idea, you’ll have to ask him.

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.

Anonymous said: hey :) so recently I realized that I have feelings for my guy friend. I was 100% positive that he liked me back. Everyone teased him when I was nearby, and people kept telling me that he "loved me" etc. etc. So I was planning on telling him that I liked him when he got back from church camp. But all of a sudden I got a text from him (while he was there) saying that he "met this girl" and he "loved her" etc. etc. Is he trying to make me jealous? Or should I actually give up? I'm so heartbroken :(

Call him out, honesty is the best policy 

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.

Anonymous said: Hi, thank you for running this blog, I really appreciate being able to ask someone for advice :) My question concerns my boyfriend of 2 months... I love him (and visa versa), but I get the impression that he cares more about looking cool and funny to me and others than understanding how what he's saying might (and does) hurt me. I haven't talked to him about it in fear of seeming selfish. How do I tell him that I feel he lacks empathy and understanding towards me without hurting his feelings?

No problem! Tell him, next time he says something means say that it isn’t funny.

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.

Anonymous said: I dated a guy for 6 months,he broke up with me almost a month ago. He has done it before, we didn't saw each other for a month but them he come back. We broke up because we weren't comfortable with each other, didn't share things and I liked him more than he liked me, he said that wasn't fair. Then one of his best friends started to talk to me, and said he liked to be with me, and meet me, he has done it before when we broke up the first time. Is it wrong to go out with him and see what happens?

DO NOT GO BACK.

It isn’t fair on your emotions and it ended for a reason.

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.

Anonymous said: Hey I moved to a new state the 2nd semester of sophomore year and I'm finding it hard to make friends. I mean I did make friends but they all already had their "group" so nothing really happened. It was so hard to get closer to them because each class I had different ppl w/ and I would only see them once during school. Before I was in a small private school and now I'm in a public school with 3000+ kids. It's so overwhelming I feel like I have no one!! I start junior year soon & I am very scared

Anonymous said: Hi there I just recieved my results for AS-levels and was extremely dissapointed with them and they have seriously damaged my self confidence. I have been advised to retake the whole year which makes me feel even more embarassed and ashamed, thinking about it makes me feel really depressed. The fact that i'll be in the lower year with the younger siblings of my friends makes it even more unbearable. please help i dont know what to feel/do about this situation.

You’re not the first person this ever happened to. Kurt changed courses and got an amazing grade second time round. Don’t stress about it.¬†

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.

Anonymous said: Ok so I met this guy on meow chat and he is honestly the sweetest guy I've ever talked to, we have so so much in common, and we've talked on facetime so I'm 99% sure he is the real thing. We talk almost every day over the phone and text constantly, and he has bought concert tickets for us both to go see the neighbourhood together, but theres just one problem; he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do because I know its morally wrong but I like him alot and i just need some advice??¿

Nah, don’t do anything if he has a girlfriends. It’s not fair on her.

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.

Anonymous said: Hey guys, so I need your advice. My friend had a baby in June, she was super premature and was a big surprise for all of us (my friend is only 20 and did not know she was pregnant until two months before birth). I was there for her the whole entire time she knew she was pregnant and I would go with her to see the baby at the hospitalShe met one of my friends via me and now she treats me like shit. Should I just wait it out or should I confront her?

Confront her! She might just be super stressed with the baby but call her out.

Sorry for the short replies, huge question backlog.

Amy.