Anonymous asked: Since Christmas is coming, and I like to plan ahead, I've been looking for a present for my crush. I found this bracelet that means a lot to me; it's got two hearts that are linked together on it, to show love. I really want to give it to her, and all of my friends think it's an adorable idea. She likes me, and I like her, but we're not together because she's in a bad place in her life and is stressed out. Do you think I should give her the bracelet, despite not being in a relationship with her?
I think that might be something that she needs right now, not saying that she needs that specific piece of jewellery or even that specific gift, but just a sign of affection.
Anonymous asked: my dad is a guy who would download cartoon videos just so on weekends we could watch them in the tv. He always downloads cartoons for us its never any grown up movie even though im a highschool junior. i think its endearingly sweet and im just very sad because how will i ever find a husband like him. Is it bad that i feel so down everytime he does sth like that?
If you feel as though you won’t find someone that will do that for their children, why don’t you do it instead :)? There’s nothing stopping you.
Anonymous asked: So, what does a guy mean if he says that he love hugging you? And asks if he could hug you to sleep? And is really sweet by giving you a massage when you're stressed with school work? Even when you're not exactly close, but you feel comfort when he's around you?
I have no idea. I think he probably likes you but if you’re not close and want to know him more then ask him to go out or something.
Anonymous asked: Hi, I have never done anything like this before, i have always tried to handle things on my own. But i just need some help. I'm in year 11 and i have no idea what i want in my life. I figured i was going to go to uni and be a teacher, but i love acting and travelling. I know people say you have your whole life to do that, but i life is so short, but what if i get no where. I really need help. Thank you.
I’m from the uk so I understand the exam system. Your GCSE’s will always be important but I urge you to go to college and uni. Most Uni’s have a study abroad exchange programme so you could still travel whilst learning. College’s also have international trips, I went to paris, switzerland and new york. You can do both. :)
Anonymous asked: Recently, my stepdad came home from working in a different state for the first time in months. He quit his job there, so he's home all the time now. My mom pays for him to do whatever he wants, and he doesn't bother to look for a job. My mom is never home, either working 12 hour shifts at work or going out with my stepdad for 12 - 16 hours. I feel like she doesn't care. I want to tell her I miss having her around but she is very irrational and would yell at me. What can I do to talk to her?
Ask her to go shopping or spend time with you whenever you can. A thing that you can both enjoy. Maybe ask your dad when he’s going back to work and if he say’s I’m not, ask why.
Anonymous asked: Recently, I've been wondering if my best friend has a crush on me. We're both girls, and she is bisexual and I'm pansexual. She'll call me sexy, hug me at random times, and the other day I had a candy bar half in my mouth and she leaned in and bit the other half, and came really close to kissing me. She's done other things that make me wonder, too. People sometimes mistake us for a couple even. I wouldn't have a problem with it, but I just want to know. Should I leave it or ask her about it?
Ask her about it, you’ve nothing to lose.
Anonymous asked: My dad (who lives in Rhode Island) threatened to have his brother (who lives in the same city as my family) kill my mother after my mom and him fought over child support. I feel like its my fault that my mom is living in fear, because they were fighting over me. I also want to tell my dad that I want nothing to do with him, but I'm too nice to say that to him. He's never been there for me, and I've seen him 4 times since I was 3. I'm 13 now. How can I tell him to leave me alone, nicely?
You can’t be nice about it if you want him to listen. You have to be firm and you have to make yourself heard. You’re well within your rights to say something. By the sounds of it he’s all words and nothing will happen to your mum but I can understand your concern.
As for it being your fault, please don’t feel that way. It is solely your dad’s fault for being like that.
Anonymous asked: I'm 16, never kissed anyone and I'm scared to. I've had the opportunity, but they're always at parties and it's always a bunch of guys who want to hook up and I can't even do that. I'm just kind of scared that 1) I'll be bad at it and 2) No one will ever want to because they actually like me and it's just because they're drunk and want to hook up
Then wait, wait until it’s the right time, not at a party and you feel comfortable.
Anonymous asked: my best friend is absolutely stunning and has an amazing personality the problem is every boy friend i've ever had only uses me for her, she doesn't realise but its really getting me down because for once i would like a boy to like me for me, it hurt so much that the boy i've liked for two and a half years and who said he liked me met her and started to like her and kept using me for her. I don't know what to do , thanks x
It’s a horrible situation that you’re in but someone will eventually like you for you and not for personal gain. Of course you can’t just say to your friend I don’t want to be friends with you because boys like you more. It’s just something you have to deal with but try not to be harsh or unforgiving to new boys that try to talk to you, they won’t always just be trying to get to her.
Anonymous asked: (2/2) I've tried multiple times to cut contact between her and I. I'm emotionally unstable and even though I love her, she makes my life harder. Every time I try to stop all communication with her, she begs me to stay, sends me messages on Skype, etc. I want to just get her out of my life so I can feel happy again. I don't want to be rude to her, but he won't leave me alone now. How can I tell her that I just don't want to be around her anymore, without sounding like an ass?
I think you need to explain to her how bad she makes you feel and how stressed out you are. Saying it out loud sometimes helps alot more. If she still doesn’t listen you’re just going to have to be blunt and that may involve being harsh.